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5 Minutes, 5 Questions With… Pamela D. Rice, author of The Sunday Wife

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JoeyPinkney.com Exclusive Interview
5 Minutes, 5 Questions With…
Pamela D. Rice, author of The Sunday Wife
(Peace In The Storm Publishing)

The Sunday Morning Wife gives an inside view into the life of Yolanda Clarke. She is the wife of Timothy Clarke, the pastor of BrightStar Tabernacle. They appear to have the perfect life. However, looks can be deceiving.

Yolanda is a silent victim of domestic violence. Yolanda finds comfort in the arms of Andre Hunter, who gives her everything that she’s missing at home. But, everything that’s done in darkness will soon come to the light.

Joey Pinkney: Where did you get the idea and inspiration to write The Sunday Morning Wife?

Pamela D. Rice: The inspiration to write this book came after witnessing a terrible act of violence while riding to church one Sunday morning. A male driver was driving down the road, using his right hand to punch his female passenger repeatedly.

I can’t say where they were going, but they looked as if they were dressed for church.

JP: Many times readers and “church folk” in general, take offense to anything that they think goes against their “men of God”. How did you overcome the concern of being misunderstood? Why is it important for you to point out this aspect of church life, which is often swept under the rug?

PR: This is certainly a “taboo” topic, and I can’t say that I have not been misunderstood. There are many who will never understand why I wrote this novel, and they are very verbal about their position.

Statistics show that one in four women will be abused. That includes women in church. Domestic violence crosses all cultures, races, socio-economic classes and religions.

The only way to offer help and hope to those who are in this horrible situation is to bring it to light. We can no longer pretend that people in church are not abused.

I cannot tell you how many women have come to me to thank me for writing this book. Women tell me they were once victims themselves. The whole process has been eye-opening.

JP: As an author, what are the keys to your success that lead to The Sunday Morning Wife getting out to the public?

PR: Perseverance. You have to believe in yourself. I received so many rejection letters and was tempted to give up so many times. But, I really believed in the message that I had.

I decided if my book could help one person escape a violent lifestyle or offer them a glimpse of hope, then it would be worth the struggle. It took two years, but my prayers were answered.

Elissa Gabrielle picked me up, took me under her wings and prepared me for publication.

JP: As an author, what is your writing process? How long did it take for you to start and finish The Sunday Morning Wife?

PR: Since this is my first novel, I can’t say that I have an established writing process. I just went with the flow, and it took me about six months to write the novel.

JP: What’s next for Pamela D. Rice?

PR: My goal is to see The Sunday Morning Wife on the big screen. I am in the process of writing my next novel, which will be released in December 2010.

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19 thoughts on “5 Minutes, 5 Questions With… Pamela D. Rice, author of The Sunday Wife”

  1. This is an interesting topic you would be surprised how many woman you go to church with are going through this but because they are church goers keep it hid, I was in that environment with my mom and step father as a kid and he was a deacon and finance dept chairman and I am way older now but I remember my mom not wanting anyone to know because of the church and my step father’s status.

  3. ONE of the first FIVE people to comment on this author interview will win a free copy of the book.

    Here is the list of people who are in the running for a FREE copy of The Sunday Wife by Pamela D. Rice.

    1) Joyce Dickerson
    2) LaShandra
    3) ???
    4) ???
    5) ???

    Leave a comment about your thoughts on the interview.

  4. I can tell you I know first hand what domestic violence. My mother was abused by my father for years until they divorced. Neither one of them went to church so, but the statistics is still the same.

    Pamela, I’m happy that you stayed the course until you were picked up the awesome Elissa Gabrielle. Much success to you.

  5. ONE of the first FIVE people to comment on this author interview will win a free copy of the book.

    Here is the list of people who are in the running for a FREE copy of The Sunday Wife by Pamela D. Rice.

    1) Joyce Dickerson
    2) LaShandra
    3) Jennifer C.
    4) ???
    5) ???

    Leave a comment about your thoughts on the interview.

  6. 1st let say I already have and read book so please dont included me in contest.

    Next I would like to say I loved this book and Mrs Rice is raising awareness. I am a huge supporter of Peace in the Storm publishing all the books I have read by them have been new, fresh and “Taboo” subjects, The Sunday Morning wife is no exception. I look forward to reading Mrs Rice next Novel.

    As a former Domestic Violence Victim myself I have to say this book took me back to when I myself was ducking and dodging punches. I have been out of that relationship for 10 yrs now and will never again be in that kind of relationship. I love me to much.

  7. I loved this book. I’m not a victim of domestic violence but certain parts of her book I related to from past relationship situations in which church and others were put before our relationship. I can’t wait to read her next book! My mom wants to read my copy and I don’t want to part with it since it’s been autographed, so this copy would be for her.

  8. I know the opportunity has passed but I must say I’m glad this book will be or has been published. So many of us go to church with our mental issues and people think because they are in church the illness stays home no baby it follows and cause havoc where ever that person is.

    This ministry platform Sis Rice has written about I pray will begin a platform for 1st lady, and congregation members and visitors of churches all over to start dialogue about what’s under the sheets of a church.

    Earlier in the year I read another book that was taboo in the church oh wee what was its title? It was a pastor who was addicted to pornography…hold up let me look ok I’m back “Illusions” by Wanda Campbell.
    I thank God for your ministry.

  9. ONE of the first FIVE people to comment on this author interview will win a free copy of the book.

    Here is the list of people who are in the running for a FREE copy of The Sunday Wife by Pamela D. Rice.

    1) Joyce Dickerson
    2) LaShandra
    3) Sandra D. Sullivan
    4) Laverge (Missy)
    5) ???

    Leave a comment about your thoughts on the interview.

  10. I love this interview and it makes my wait for the book that much more intense. Can’t wait to read this one. I too have witnessed these trials in the church.

  11. ONE of the first FIVE people to comment on this author interview will win a free copy of the book.

    Here is the list of people who are in the running for a FREE copy of The Sunday Wife by Pamela D. Rice.

    1) Joyce Dickerson
    2) LaShandra
    3) Sandra D. Sullivan
    4) Laverge (Missy)
    5) Dona Florence

    Leave a comment about your thoughts on the interview.

  12. didn’t get a chance to finish my message hit the wrong key.
    However, to have been witness to these kinds of acts is stunning I must say. Because no matter whom is doing the abusing it is wrong all the way around. I see it in this way, the person whom is being abused tries to hide the physical scars but emotionally there is no way of hiding. I have never been a victin of abuse, but I have spoken and misnistered to some who have. it’s a hard and touchy situation to be involved in. But those whom are going through these forms of abuse needs comforting and words of encouragement.

  13. When I was younger, I can remember one of my best friends father did the same thang. A piece of work. Glory to GOD on Sundays and the other days just a heathen. He put his wife and family thru alot, and the church did nothing. I guess it wasn’t visible on Sunday, but Mon-Fri the evidence was there. I would love for my bookclub The Guiding Light Church “Narrative Expressions” to read this book.

    1. One of the girls I grew up with is married to a Pastor and was or still may be a victim of Domestic Abuse, sunglasses and bruises all the time. All I can say is I am no longer a member where he ministers

    1. I’m so excited I won! When should I expect my book. My mom will be so excited!

    2. I’m so excited I won! When should I expect my book. My mom will be so excited!

  16. Even though I don’t personally know any woman who is being abused by a pastor husband or church elder husband, I do see some subtle signs of being repressed and taking submission to the level of subservience that makes me wonder what goes on behind closed doors with these people. Thought provoking…hmmm

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